classic, vintage & Boho Wedding and event tableware rentals 

Serving all of Middle Tennessee, including Southern Kentucky & Northern Alabama

Welcome to the

Elegant Eclectic

el-e-gant (adjective):
pleasingly graceful and stylish in appearance or manner.


ec-lec-tic (noun):
a person who derives ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources

At The Elegant Eclectic our goal is to offer you the beautiful elements you need to make the tablescape of your dreams while at the same time simplifying this part  of your special event so you don't have to! Whether your wedding or event is large or small, and whether you need a complete tablesetting or only specific pieces, we are here to help!


Have your own dishes & decor but need assistance putting it all together? We offer design, set-up, bussing & break-down services to make your day less work!

We offer a wide range of ever-growing classic, specialty and vintage dish & decor rentals for your special event. Whatever your vision we got you covered! While our specialty is vintage, retro & eclectic pieces, we also carry classic modern pieces perfect for even the most minimalist event.     Our eclectic, mis-matched but beautifully coordinated colors and designs allow something for all styles, seasons and holidays,


Love tea parties? We got you covered with our huge selection of tea cups, saucers, tea pots & more! Full packages are our specialty!

A drawing of a swirl on a white background.

the fondest memories are made when gathered around the table

Your beautiful table settings begin here...

About Us

A personal start

The Elegant Eclectic was largely birthed out of my daughter’s wedding several years ago after being very unexpectedly approached by her wedding venue with the idea. Apparently, future brides saw my daughter’s wedding pictures on the venue’s Instagram page and inquired how they might get this look for themselves!

A table set for a picnic with plates , candles , cups and glasses.

we're a Preferred vendor at:

We can't recommend Mary Kirkpatrick with The Elegant Eclectic highly enough! We've had the pleasure of working with Mary for several events, and her tablescape designs are always exceptionally creative and perfectly tailored to our themes.


She consistently goes above and beyond expectations to ensure every detail is flawless. Mary's talent, professionalism, and dedication truly elevate every event she touches!


Aimee Byrd, Executive Director, Fayetteville Main Street

Fayetteville, Tennessee

April 2025

"We recently got married and one of the best decisions we made was booking our decor and tablescapes through Elegant Eclectic. Everything was absolutely beautiful and Mary was a joy to work with. Her inventory is unique and has lots of options so you can find the look you want with the most competitive pricing. She made our night exactly how we had always envisioned and we are so thankful. Do yourselves a favor and lock in your date ASAP."


- Aly & Travis H.

The Caldwell at Love Language, Nashville Tennessee, November 2023

“I would highly recommend Mary with the Elegant eclectic! I had the pleasure of working with her when she was starting her business. I own a wedding venue & we included her in our preferred vendor list. Her rentals take a wedding from good to “wow!” She is a prompt communicator & dependable for delivery & pickup. Can’t wait to see her business grow!”


- Randi

SUNNYSIDE FARM & EVENTS, WEISER IDAHO

"Mary was such a great asset to my daughter's wedding day in so many ways! She has an amazing collection of real beautiful dishes that added that perfect touch of elegance to our reception tables! She went above & beyond in delivery, set up & tear down. She has a great eye for all things wedding & offered guidance & help with little extras that would've otherwise been overlooked. Communication was always timely anytime we had questions or needed to make decisions...you will not be disappointed if you choose to use her services!"


- Angie

Mother-of-the-bride, September 2020

...thank you SO much for being a part of our day!! You absolutely killed it and brought all my visions to life even better than I could have imagined. It was perfect, truly. I wanted to send you some pictures we got back of the table settings. They are so dreamy and gorgeous....I can't thank you enough. It was truly a magical day, and we are so grateful for the role you played in it. Thank you thank you thank you!!!


-Kennedy C.

Lebanon, Tennessee ~ October, 2024



I can't thank you enough for all that you have done..... You have taken so much stress off of me, and I am truly grateful. Everyone needs a Mary on their special day!


-Catherine

Evergreen at Gunter Hollow, November 2024

Mary at The Elegant Eclectic is one of the best event designers I have ever met. Having put on multiple large scale events that took care for the attention to detail, using Mary made everything easier. We gave her a budget and a vision board and she pulled together the most beautiful Gala that we’ve ever had! We had compliment after compliment from attendees thanking us, marveling at the details and design. We were glad to tell them that it was Mary!!


Mary makes working with her easy. She asks good questions, has fantastic ideas, and a collection of most of the table elements that you’d need without ever renting from a third party!


We will continue to work with Mary as long as we have events!!


~Rachel Peck, Executive Director, 431 Ministries, Spring Hill, TN

We can't recommend Mary Kirkpatrick with The Elegant Eclectic highly enough! We've had the pleasure of working with Mary for several events, and her tablescape designs are always exceptionally creative and perfectly tailored to our themes.


She consistently goes above and beyond expectations to ensure every detail is flawless. Mary's talent, professionalism, and dedication truly elevate every event she touches!


Aimee Byrd, Executive Director, Fayetteville Main Street

Fayetteville, Tennessee

April 2025

"We recently got married and one of the best decisions we made was booking our decor and tablescapes through Elegant Eclectic. Everything was absolutely beautiful and Mary was a joy to work with. Her inventory is unique and has lots of options so you can find the look you want with the most competitive pricing. She made our night exactly how we had always envisioned and we are so thankful. Do yourselves a favor and lock in your date ASAP."


- Aly & Travis H.

The Caldwell at Love Language, Nashville Tennessee, November 2023

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Look at what sets us apart...

Tea Party Setting at a Bridal Shower Tea Party

Tea Parties for All Occasions ​


Celebrating a momentous event? Perhaps reaching a special birthday? Tea parties are for EVERYONE anytime of year (because who doesn't love to get dressed up, relax and socialize with friends for awhile?!) We’d love to take the work out of your next Mother’s Day Tea, Christmas Tea, Charitable Fundraiser or just a Welcome-to-the-neighborhood-get-to-know-you! We offer teacups galore, vintage china & glassware, teapots, punchbowls, servingware & tabletop decor! Just add flowers & food and you’ll be good to go!

Tea Party Bridal Showers


We would LOVE to supply all you need to have a chicly vintage, feels-like-everything-was-collected-for-years (well, some of it really was!), elegant tea party bridal shower! Give your guests, young & old, an opportunity to put on their best party dress & just be fancy for the day! Details like fresh flowers, fun music & scrumptious desserts blend well with our collection of vintage tablecloths, doilies, tea pots & tea cups GALORE!! Perfect ANYTIME of year, inside or out! We'll even include a basket of fun props for photo ops: parasols, hats, gloves, etc....