classic, vintage & Boho Wedding and event tableware & Decor rentals 

Serving all of Middle Tennessee, including Southern Kentucky & Northern Alabama

Welcome to

The Elegant Eclectic

el-e-gant (adjective):
pleasingly graceful and stylish in appearance or manner.


ec-lec-tic (noun):
a person who derives ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources

At The Elegant Eclectic, our mission is to provide the beautiful, unique elements you need to create the tablescape of your dreams—while making the process as simple and stress-free as possible.


Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, we’re here to help. From complete table settings to those perfect finishing touches, our collection of vintage, modern, and eclectic pieces is curated to suit any style, budget and occasion.


Already have your own dishes and décor, but not sure how to bring it all together? We’ve got you covered! We offer design, setup, bussing, and breakdown services so you can focus on enjoying your day, not managing the details.


And the fun doesn’t stop at the table—we also offer a playful mix of vintage and modern yard games to entertain guests and elevate your event experience.




Our Curated dish & decor rentals are for every occasion! From classic elegance to vintage charm, we offer a growing collection of dishware and decor rentals to bring your event vision to life. Whether you're dreaming of a retro flair, eclectic details, or clean, modern minimalism, we've got you covered!


Our beautifully mismatched yet thoughtfully coordinated pieces suit all styles, seasons, and celebrations - perfect for weddings, showers, holiday parties, corporate events and more.


Hosting a tea party? Our extensive selection of teacups, saucers, teapots, and full-service packages make planning a breeze.


Let us help you create a day that's beautiful, memorable, and uniquely you—with Tablescapes that are as stunning as your celebration deserves!!

A drawing of a swirl on a white background.

the fondest memories are made when gathered around the table

Your beautiful table settings begin here...

About Us

A personal start

The Elegant Eclectic was born from a truly special moment—my daughter’s wedding. After pouring my heart into creating a unique and beautiful tablescape for her big day, I was surprised (and deeply honored) when her wedding venue approached me with an idea: "Had I ever thought of offering this as a service?"


Soon after her wedding, photos from her wedding were shared on the venue’s Instagram, and the response was overwhelming. Future brides began asking, “How can I get this look for my wedding?”~ that's when the venue approached me and just like that The Elegant Eclectic began to take root.


What started as a labor of love for one unforgettable day has now grown into a passion for helping others create their own beautiful, memorable events!


A table set for a picnic with plates , candles , cups and glasses.

we're a Preferred vendor at:

We can't recommend Mary Kirkpatrick with The Elegant Eclectic highly enough! We've had the pleasure of working with Mary for several events, and her tablescape designs are always exceptionally creative and perfectly tailored to our themes.


She consistently goes above and beyond expectations to ensure every detail is flawless. Mary's talent, professionalism, and dedication truly elevate every event she touches!


Aimee Byrd, Executive Director, Fayetteville Main Street

Fayetteville, Tennessee

April 2025

"We recently got married and one of the best decisions we made was booking our decor and tablescapes through Elegant Eclectic. Everything was absolutely beautiful and Mary was a joy to work with. Her inventory is unique and has lots of options so you can find the look you want with the most competitive pricing. She made our night exactly how we had always envisioned and we are so thankful. Do yourselves a favor and lock in your date ASAP."


- Aly & Travis H.

The Caldwell at Love Language, Nashville Tennessee, November 2023

“I would highly recommend Mary with the Elegant eclectic! I had the pleasure of working with her when she was starting her business. I own a wedding venue & we included her in our preferred vendor list. Her rentals take a wedding from good to “wow!” She is a prompt communicator & dependable for delivery & pickup. Can’t wait to see her business grow!”


- Randi

SUNNYSIDE FARM & EVENTS, WEISER IDAHO

"Mary was such a great asset to my daughter's wedding day in so many ways! She has an amazing collection of real beautiful dishes that added that perfect touch of elegance to our reception tables! She went above & beyond in delivery, set up & tear down. She has a great eye for all things wedding & offered guidance & help with little extras that would've otherwise been overlooked. Communication was always timely anytime we had questions or needed to make decisions...you will not be disappointed if you choose to use her services!"


- Angie

Mother-of-the-bride, September 2020

...thank you SO much for being a part of our day!! You absolutely killed it and brought all my visions to life even better than I could have imagined. It was perfect, truly. I wanted to send you some pictures we got back of the table settings. They are so dreamy and gorgeous....I can't thank you enough. It was truly a magical day, and we are so grateful for the role you played in it. Thank you thank you thank you!!!


-Kennedy C.

Lebanon, Tennessee ~ October, 2024



I can't thank you enough for all that you have done..... You have taken so much stress off of me, and I am truly grateful. Everyone needs a Mary on their special day!


-Catherine

Evergreen at Gunter Hollow, November 2024

Mary at The Elegant Eclectic is one of the best event designers I have ever met. Having put on multiple large scale events that took care for the attention to detail, using Mary made everything easier. We gave her a budget and a vision board and she pulled together the most beautiful Gala that we’ve ever had! We had compliment after compliment from attendees thanking us, marveling at the details and design. We were glad to tell them that it was Mary!!


Mary makes working with her easy. She asks good questions, has fantastic ideas, and a collection of most of the table elements that you’d need without ever renting from a third party!


We will continue to work with Mary as long as we have events!!


~Rachel Peck, Executive Director, 431 Ministries, Spring Hill, TN

We can't recommend Mary Kirkpatrick with The Elegant Eclectic highly enough! We've had the pleasure of working with Mary for several events, and her tablescape designs are always exceptionally creative and perfectly tailored to our themes.


She consistently goes above and beyond expectations to ensure every detail is flawless. Mary's talent, professionalism, and dedication truly elevate every event she touches!


Aimee Byrd, Executive Director, Fayetteville Main Street

Fayetteville, Tennessee

April 2025

"We recently got married and one of the best decisions we made was booking our decor and tablescapes through Elegant Eclectic. Everything was absolutely beautiful and Mary was a joy to work with. Her inventory is unique and has lots of options so you can find the look you want with the most competitive pricing. She made our night exactly how we had always envisioned and we are so thankful. Do yourselves a favor and lock in your date ASAP."


- Aly & Travis H.

The Caldwell at Love Language, Nashville Tennessee, November 2023

Reviews

Look at what sets us apart...

Tea Party Setting at a Bridal Shower Tea Party

Tea Parties for All Occasions


Celebrating a milestone? Hosting a birthday, fundraiser, or just gathering friends for a cozy afternoon? Tea parties are timeless—and they're for everyone, all year round! Because let’s be honest: who doesn’t love dressing up a bit, sipping tea, and enjoying good conversation?


Whether you're planning a Mother’s Day Tea, a festive Christmas gathering, a charitable event, or a simple neighborhood welcome, we’re here to make it easy and elegant.


We provide everything you need for a picture-perfect tea party:
~Teacups galore
~Vintage china & glassware
~Teapots, punchbowls & servingware

~Tabletop décor with charm & character


Just add flowers & food - (and if you need help with that, we can help there too!)


Tea Party Bridal Showers


A Bridal Bash with Vintage Charm & Just the right amount of fancy!


We’d LOVE to help you host a chicly vintage tea party bridal  shower that feels like every piece was collected for years ~ because, well… some of it really was!


Our beautifully curated collection of vintage teapots, teacups, tablecloths, & doilies sets the scene for a day that’s elegant, fun & memorable!  Whether celebrating indoors or out, any time of year, we’ve got everything you need to create a moment guests of all ages will treasure.


Invite your guests to put on their best party dress & enjoy:

~elegant tea & conversation

~scrumptious desserts & celebratory drinks

~fun music & fresh florals

~entertaining games & a basket of whimsical photo

  props such as parasols, gloves, hats & more!